You could say Husband and I are in a rut. Hell, we’d say we are in a rut, but you know what? It’s a really nice and comfortable rut, thanks very much. We quite like it. Every Saturday of our anniversary weekends for more than 20 years, we’ve gotten up, had a leisurely breakfast, gone back to the room and read the paper or lazed around for an hour or so, then headed south on Hwy 1 for Big Sur.
Our destination is the Nepenthe complex just south of the little village of Big Sur. The drive down is just breathtaking and photos can’t do it justice. I took some anyway.
This is a drive by of the beautiful white sand beach in Carmel.
I always feel sorry that Husband has to keep his eyes on the road when there is such beauty just outside the window.
When we left PG, it was foggy and windy and the wind was sharp and chilly. But, as in the past, as we drove south along the coast, we came out of the fog and into the bright sun and warmer temperatures. The fire and floods earlier in the year have closed the Big Sur Campground and we saw a couple of cars marooned in the mud just where the parking lot to the gift shop/restaurant used to be. They have a lot of work to do to re-open the campground by Memorial Day weekend.
Here we are. Up the stairs is Cafe Kevah – a terrace that looks out over the ocean and down the coast. Inside Phoenix is, well, I guess it depends on how you look at it. They cater to local artists and sell one-of-a- kind jewelry, pottery, weavings, handmade soaps and lotions, books about the area, paintings, toys, windchimes and unique clothing. There is a downstairs at Phoenix and they really should have a sign that reads something like: Abandon Your $$ All Who Enter Here. Oh, that sign should be right at the front door! Anyway, I’ve certainly abandoned a ton of money there over the years. On the other hand, I have some wonderful jewelry and jackets and such that you’ll never see on anyone else. So, you get what you pay for and I confess I am filled with anticipation before each trip. What wonderful stuff awaits?
This “sign” hangs over the stairs that lead down to the clothing treasures. There is a smaller jewelry counter, women’s clothing and men’s, too. The clothing tends to the elaborate, dramatic and expensive. I found a 3/4 length embroidered jacket this trip that just brought me to my knees – both the beauty and the price. I have no where to wear such work of art, even if I could afford the $495 price tag. But, I really do appreciate it! And covet it.
I did find a wonderful linen jacket of asian design and it came home with me. The sleeves need only an inch or so shortening. It’s a lovely shade of fresh green – perfect for spring and summer.
Upstairs at Kevah, there is never any wind, just warm sun and the feeling that you’ve stepped into another world. The food is nothing special, I guess, but I always have the home fries with salsa, a poached egg and a dollop of sour cream. I make the same thing at home from time to time but the ambiance is sadly lacking.
I’m thinking just about anything you eat while taking in this view is going to taste absolutely amazing! And, if a bottle of water is $2.50, well so be it. I could sit on this terrace for.ever. They never run you off and encourage you to stay and soak in the special energy of the place.
This year, I purchased a couple of pieces of the “special energy” of Big Sur. I bought earrings made from Big Sur jade. They are awesome and called my name all the way from The Phoenix while we ate lunch upstairs. I had no choice but to obey. Really. I could hear them.
On the way back to PG, we stopped at the peace garden so I could take pictures. It’s crazy stacked rocks and in the past there was always a sign admonishing the current government bullies to knock it off. No such sign these days, but very interesting designs……..

Click on the photos for a closer look – it’s worth it. There’s something very moving about this garden – zen, maybe? I don’t know but I always feel a sense of the artist who worked so hard to put it together – his way of making a beautiful statement about the awfulness of the world at large.
I’m going to take a break, now. The next post will be dinner at Joe Rombi’s in PG. We’ve been having our anniversary dinner there for about 15 years and it’s a unique little Italian restaurant. A true neighborhood gathering place. Oh, and hands down the best strawberry shortcake EVAH!